Maybe Its Love Maybe It Ain't

Written by DDINYOURPOCKET on March 31, 2009

I wish people would make up their minds. Either you love someone or you don’t. With love comes that person’s baggage and their faults. You can’t just love them one minute and say, “Screw you,” the next. It is either or not both. People have to realize that you can’t have your cake and eat it to in a relationship. Sometimes we fail to understand that we have to give a little to get a little. We usually miss the give a little. Then again we give too much and we reach a breaking point. In many relationships tension brews and boils. It’s like magma. The more dishonesty and disloyalty we have the more the pressure will build. Resistance is futile.

          As with everything else relationships have their good side. You have that certain comfort of knowing that you have somebody to talk to. You know that you have somebody to love even if it is only the time being. The sheer joy when your soul is on fire is in lack of better words absolutely profound. Love and relationships bring you inner peace. It’s almost like you have been shanghaied by serenity and life can’t touch you. The only thing you can feel is the burning and yearning you have for that person. The yearning never ends and the burning never stops.

          Everything comes with lesson. Relationships teach you to be strong enough to stand on your own two feet. They teach you perseverance and faith. Relationships are a workout all their own. The question is: “Are you worthy?” The decision itself is all yours and your significant other’s. Whether it works or not comes totally from you. Live your relationships to the fullest and learn to take each lesson with your heart, soul, and mind. Take each lesson with you throughout you life. The finally advice I have is that when you break up be calm and sure that it is what you want. Rash decisions can lead to broken hearts, swollen and red eyes, and broken jaws. Oh yeah, before you get truly mad write down how you feel and think.