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LOVE has no labels.
Written by EmaBaksa on December 5, 2010
We all have at least once felt in love. Love is unconditional and has no rules that we have to follow. We just have to follow our own heart. Inspired with so many blogs that I read, I decied to write one myself.
I have been in relationship with this guy for over year and a half now. I am so happy with him. He completes me in so manyy ways and whats most important for me is that he makes me feel special every single day.
But, the thing that has been bothering others, not me, is that we have different level of education. He has not been interested in school. He finished high school and decied to work instead of maybe going to college. I am on my second year of college now and I decied to go to another college when I finish this one. There have been so many people that have been asking me how can I be with a guy that doesn't want to go to college. That I should be with someone who will have college degree like me. I was in shock. Its totally absurd to me. To some people level of ecucation means more that how someone makes me feel or my happiness.
My ex-boyfriend was really smart and he is at college. I am not sorry for being with him. We were together for three and a half years and I was happy bit despite his level of education he was really possesive. He always had to knew where I was, how was I with, what did I talk about with someone and he didn't stand presence of other male friends of mine. He always had to mark his teritory with huging me in front of everyone, always holding my hand no matter where we where. I know that maybe to some that will look like amazing boyfriend but I am my own person and I need my space. He always wanted me to prove my love to him and I did, but at some point I got tired beacause I saw that it was pointless. I don't need a guy to feel special. I know that we all are no matter what anyone tells us.
Just wanted to share my story to let everyone know that LOVE has no labels. Its doesn't matter how other person looks, has many material stuff or not, is well educated or not, etc..It matters how that person makes us feel.
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number1pcdfan said on December 5, 2010:
Love has no labels > i love that :)
i havnt ever been in a relationship, i would advise you that if your boyfriend doesnt go to collage i dont think that it should change your relatonship. you love someone for them not their acheivements and if other people metion say stufff to you, you just need to know that you love him and thats all that matters and not anyone else opinion
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EmaBaksa
Ema is a girl who is 22 that lives in Croatia (Hrvatska). She joined Dipdive on July 1, 2009. The last time she logged in was on May 19, 2012.
on Nov 5, 2010 from web
Love definitely has no labels. It doesn’t matter on the colour, gender, upbringing, education, social status. None of that can affect what is inside us, what is in our hearts, and that is what love is. If you are truly happy it doesn’t matter what other people think. Education isn’t for everyone, he is clearly more of a practical person and took the initiative to do what made him happy and make a good career for himself. That shows far more strength and belief than someone who stays in education when deep down they hate it and know it’s not for them, but do it to please others. Yes, it can create barriers and I know this because of my ex bf. He too went down the work route while I went to uni and eventually it didn’t work out and I believe that was one of the reasons. We just weren’t on the same level when it came to conversation amongst other things. But we spent many happy times together and I also don’t regret having that experience. Just because it didn’t work for me and him, doesn’t mean it can’t work for others as I see it every day, and if you are both happy then I am pleased for you. Stay strong and stay true to your heart as only you have to live with the consequences of your actions. x