judgments.

Written by Sandra on June 19, 2009

I'm not a person that judges other people, because I wouldn't wanna be judged in return.
In my opinion one of the worst things people can do is to judge someone by their appearance. Because people's appearance can't tell you whats really hidden underneath that mask of hair, make-up and clothes.
Everyone in this world forms a view on every single person that comes across their way - what is basically okay - but then, some of them reserve the right to just look down on those people who they meet and the "opinion" they formed about them turns into "judgment".
But I don't think that anybody has the right to judge others as soon as they don't know them.

See, there are also people you DO know and nevertheless that bad opinion you have towards them remains. Sometimes you meet people who you don't like and people who WILL stay in your life, people that you just can't remove out of your own little world. And then all you can do is to accept the situation for what it is. You could try to change your opinion towards that particular person, but ultimately, it won't work out for too long.

I'd also never judge someone else's actions.
We are all human and that means we're allowed to make mistakes. We're not just allowed to make mistakes, we are meant to make some. We can only learn from them, may it be our own ones or mistakes that other people make. But the hard part is to recognize and discover  those so-called "mistakes", and if you did that you'll be able to prevent yourself from doing it again.
The lessons you need to learn will be repeated until you learnt it. ["... these repeated experiences have but one aim: to teach him what he doesn't want to learn." - Paulo Coelho.]





THERE'S SO MUCH MORE BEHiND MY SMiILE
THAT PEOPLE WHO DON'T KNOW ME JUST CAN'T SEE.