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avatar Sandra

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People can pretend so ridiculously much.
We can pretend to like someone who we obviously don't like at all. We can pretend to be okay with a particular situation without knowing how to deal with it. And we can pretend to pretend when we're actually just being ourselves.
It must be kind of human nature, like a self-protection mechanism. We pretend in order to protect ourselves from the harm that could be caused if we said the truth.
But you should ask yourself: Would you rather be loved for someone who you're not or be hated for someone who you truly are? I'd go with the latter.

It's not good to hide the personality and the light inside of you. You need to let it break through so it can alight the whole world and infect everyone who's passing your way. See, you'll probably be able to fool some people around you but you'll never be able to fool your heart! Your heart knows the truth and it will continue to remind you of that very truth at any given opportunity.
Sometimes we get too lost in pretending, so that we gradually begin to believe our lies ourselves. We try to eliminate our true feelings in order to protect ourselves. We don't want to get hurt because, obviously, we got hurt way too often in life.

Your character is formed by all the lessons you learnt, all the risks you didn't take and all the experiences and knowledge you gained. Your personality  changes with every day, with every new memory that you make and some day it will be strong and big enough to break out of you. And once it broke out you'll sense a certain feeling of relief. Because there's nothing better, nothing more beautiful and precious than living out the person that you truly are.

Never behave like others do, for they do already exist! Be yourself since there's no one else like you in the entire world. Don't be afraid to 'fail' on your way of self-fulfillment, cause you're simply not able to fail. It's never wrong what you do as it's all leading to the person that you are and the person that you'll become. See, there's no need to be ashamed of who you are and what you do, as long as you do it with all your heart and soul.



NEVER REGRET ANYTHiNG THAT YOU DiD,
iF YOU WERE UTTERLY HAPPY iN THAT VERY MOMENT !!

avatar Sandra wrote 4 months and 14 days ago

 

Comments

Stefani said 3 months and 25 days ago:

i agree with u sandra :)

 

xtina said 4 months and 5 days ago:

i have to agree that this was totally inspiring! thank you so much for this blog and your light and your advice.

thank you so much for being who you are and letting us be who we are.

and yes, we pretend because we don't wanna show our weaknesses...

 

NinaPCD said 4 months and 7 days ago:

woow :) Das hast du echt toll alles ausgerückt ;) So wahr.

Danke für den Blog ;) xo

 

Born2DancePCD said 4 months and 13 days ago:

inspiration in each paragraph!!! love it!! xo

 

Jessicaiswhoiam said 4 months and 13 days ago:

Hi,

 Thats some inspirational blog you got there,

Stay strong and love you for you

       Jessica xoxox

 

watersmagoo said 4 months and 13 days ago:

Change means movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasive friction of conflict.

Saul Alinsky

We are all afraid to be ourselves.  But until we take that step to make the change for the better, we will never know.  You could be pretending to be someone else, and not letting yourself shine and therefore only living your life at 60%.  Why not be 100% YOU and happy.

If your friends cant accept you or your society dont love you for who you are.  Then they are shallow and do not deserve you.

I dont know why we pretend.....maybe we are scared of rejection.  But truth is...people may like you more if you are being yourself because you are actually happy and that reflects  in all you do.

Yesterday I smiled at a complete stranger....guess what...he smiled back as if it was the first smile he had ever received from someone he didnt know.

I want to be remember as the person who smile....because that was ME....xoxo

 

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Sandra

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Name Sandra
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