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bendy-clo 18 years, Female, United Kingdom

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What i am scared of ♥

Written by bendy-clo on July 26, 2009

I am scared of not being loved by my family

My Family mean the world to me and when we fall out i hate myself for doing the wrong thing,But i have come to learn that every family hits problems on the way and it can only make us stronger  ♥

I am scared of being alone

My worst fear is growing old by myself and not having anybody to share my love with, Not having and children to teach, help with their problems and be their for them when they need a mum  ♥

I am scared to tell my family my problems

Every time i have problems i laways try to overcome them by myself,I havce now learned that a problem is easier to solve with the help of other people,With the help of other people you know that you will not be by yourself,There will always be somebody there to protect you and listen to your problem  ♥

Comments (5)

EmaBaksa said on August 14, 2009:

We are all scared of some things. But try to solve your fears, and overcome them, because fears just block you to achieve and be person you wanna be. I am always here for you if you wanna talk. <3

 

bendy-clo said on July 31, 2009:

Thankyou Sandra :D

I am working on Telling my mum & sister my problems :D

Thankyou for your help, I loved to read it and you are right they all connect :D

Cloe  ♥

 

Sandra said on July 31, 2009:

I think that each of your fears are kinda connected with the other one. You're not able to tell your family about your problems, which leads to the thought of your family falling out. It's important to share not only the bright and happy moments together, but also the low and sad ones - this brings you closer to each other and then a stronger family bond will evolve from that. I think this fear of your family falling out will kinda vanish once you can tell them about your problems, fears and whatever bothers you. Then, I think your fear of growing old all alone has also to do with your family. I don't know how close or how distanced you are to your family but I guess if you experienced the strong company and the great support of a family, you won't have to fear growing old alone. Your family will always be by your side, that's what families are for! However, you most likely meant growing old without the right guy on your side. Actually, I can't really help you with that or give you any great advice. All I know is that every single person here on Earth is meant to be happy eventually. So, don't worry too much about that - I know how nerve-wracking it can be to have those sorrows in your mind. But you're still so young, just two years younger than me, and believe me I had the exact same fears back then. Honestly, I still have them every now and then. But over the years I learned which issues are worth worrying about and which are simply a waste of your precious time. You can influence neither love nor your destiny, so just keep on believing that one day everything will come together and that one day your sorrows will all be gone! :)
Sorry, I ended up being a little wannbe psychologist! I hope you don't mind and that this helps you at least a little bit! :)

 

bendy-clo said on July 27, 2009:

Thankyou very much  ♥

 

roofyrox said on July 26, 2009:

i liked when you talked about having a fall out and being afraid of not doing the right thing, i think that we all have that fear of making the right choice in a falling out. i know i have....

 

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Cloe Jade is a girl who is 18 that lives in United Kingdom. She joined Dipdive on January 20, 2009. The last time she logged in was on December 11, 2009.

Life is only what you make it to be , Take every opportunity that comes your way because once they are gone they dont come back soo easily ? But you can easily add me on MSN :D bendy_wendy_06@hotmail.com

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