Thank you Emma, Tina and Emily for your replies. Well I'm sure you have all read my recent blog... So you could say I found my strenght :)

Much love to you all XoXo

I’ve only just found this blog, wow it is so beautifully written you can feel so much emotion in it.  I know things have been tough for you lately and I know exactly how it feels to have your heart broken, I can relate to so much of what you said it was scary.  Some people tell you you are lucky to have been truly in love, because so many people never experience how that feels.  On the one hand maybe that’s true, but on the other, what they don’t understand is that it makes it even harder to overcome because you get scared you won’t feel it again – perhaps they are the ones who have never felt true love? Just know you are not alone!

I know it seems a terrible cliché but the honest truth is that time is the best healer.  It is of course impossible to just cut someone out of your life overnight when they have been such a huge part of it, so how can anyone expect you to be fine and get over it in a matter of days? You have every right to take your time, let yourself cry, talk to your friends even if they have heard the same story 100 times. I went through my bad time from a previous relationship last summer, I still think about him every day, just differently now.  But the fact is only time changes those feelings. The main advice I can give is to keep busy as I know you are with the gym which is great – healthy body healthy mind! And also don’t let yourself get too tired – it was always Sundays when I had been out late the night before that I would find myself feeling down – tiredness plays horrible tricks!

I know you have come a long way since writing this though, and Im so pleased for you. Yes there will be ups and downs, but it’s accepting why it happened and knowing that it wasn’t meant to be in the long term, but taking the positives out of it that will get you through, and realising that you don’t need anyone else to validate yourself and feel complete – happiness comes from within, emanates out and then acts as a magnet.  Just trust you are on the right path.  xxx

i know it was a month ago since you wrote this blog and i'm sorry for not leaving a comment before. anyways, how are things now?

I can relate to what you wrote in this blog because i've been heart broken. many of us were. but the truth is that, most of us find love again. there will be another person who will come, maybe unexpectedly, to water you with love.

everything happens for a reason! if she left, it's just because it wasn't meant to happen forever. don't forget the times that you spent together, but don't let it hold you back either.

you have to move forward, look for another person and don't ever stop that search. I'm sure you'll find the right one in due time because you're an amazing girl! :)

Babe it feels so bad right now I know this but you will grow and bloom i know this for sure

first you need time to heal and deal with your new life

always here for you xoxo