Nicole,

We all have our moments of ups and downs... We're human. Babe, you're strong, you have this strength and you're an inspiration to me !! You're not a weak person... A weak person is unable to stand up for yourself, unable to form an opinion and stand by it, easily swayed by others and is very susceptible to peer pressure. Yeah, we need to find our own way.. Dream and believe, never give up. I agree with you, we need to believe in ourself first...  and we must have courage and strength to make our dream become reality.

Love ya *-*

You were strong enough to make a move away from your freinds, that's more than I can say about me. I remeber being in school and my mom was going to make a move to some other city....but she didn't. She stayed, because she knew I would be heart broken and just couldn't live with myself.

It takes much streangth to have the courage to leave behind what we hold dear presently, only to see it all away and start over. I am proud enough to say that today it would be a different story. I can take new cenery and new people, but that is more than what I can say for my past self.

The fact that you are able to write openly about such a topic is very admirable. It's often too hard for even the bravest people to admit their weaknesses on paper; which means you are stronger than many more than you realise.

You are in no way weak. Not in any sense of the word. You don't know it but you have more strength than you can ever know. You have given me strength. A weak person would not be able to do that.  After months of talking to you,you still astonish me every single day with your strength and courage. And you reduce me to tears almost on a daily basis. They are good tears though. The best i have ever cried. Your words reach my heart,a place long closed in by a tall wall. And because of you those walls are slowly shrinking. I hope one day to have the strength you have. You are an inspiration to alot of people. Don't ever forget that. I will tell you every single day and looking at others comments,I know I am not alone it that.

I love you xoxoxo

u know your blogs are really moving because you always talk about such personal experiences, and don't sugarcoat it, yet you write about positive things as well. its honest, and i appreciate it so soooo much, u have helped me out alot, and i appreciate it. 

i cant find a single reason someone who has words and stregnth to write like u can even begin to call themselves weak...u are a fighter dont forget that :)

go! force becomes through the stages of life we have had, for example: I am afraid to speak in front of an audience and I am a journalist, but gradually he ido face, and sometimes I have said: "Little "Your going to be a journalist of office, which is only going to write notes, but mmm I like it because, once a professor told me: you are the laboratory mouse, plop, of course I love to read, but what intereza in me, I know what my weak and strong sides ,is that you also need to focus, what are your strengths parties! you are a wonderful person and things are not important, you're not going to let that stop you win, as alimentate like, if you feel happy, you make use of Moreover, all of them do not live you!ah! and I already found a friend you can trust, but sometimes do not understand very well what you say! xD ... and I also know that it is traumatic, moving, changing schools, it's horrible! I spent so .... but when you feel sad or weak, Focus on something you have passed and you laughing! is the best ... I will tell you that when I get bad or sad or I am a useless, I always think at that stage of my life with happy moments I spent a wonderful person, and so often forgotten everything! strengthens me!



I love you eh! not forget!=)

What do i see in you ?  I see someone, who is very inspirational, strong and talented. Someone, who has made something of their life, someone, who took a chance and proved to the world that hard work pays off. I see someone, who writes from the heart, and inspires me to write more.  I think youre gorgeous ; )  I'm not exactly happy with my weight either, but i dont think i'll get to a stage where i am. (well, not anytime soon) I've had eating disorders in the past. I starved myself and ended up on various medications to get my strenght up.. I was really sick for months on end. I came through that, and once again, my confidence took a beating and I ended up sick again. I'd make myself sick anytime i ate anything. Now, i'm paying the price because i have to take iron supplements and vitamins to repair the damage. ..''if you give up on what strength you do have, its hard to get it back....'' - couldnt agree more.  Its taken me a long time to get here, to a place where im happy. I think we restrict ourselves when we struggle with confidence because somewhere deep down we're slightly unhappy with some aspects of ourselves, or we fear judgement of others. We need to stop listening to the negative voice and cut all chains... and just go for it.  We have nothing to lose. Sometimes, the hardest step is the first step.

much love < 3

xoxo aoife xoxo

This blog really moved me, cause I can relate to everything you wrote. And I agree that you shouldn't be satisfied with the second best, everyone deserves the very BEST, no matter who you are. It's a hard journey to achieve and even be able to even come close to the best. Maybe someday you'll be able to move on on this journey and finally get to the best that you deserve. Maybe this 'second best' that you've settled for, is just a stopover on your way to the best.

And i can SO relate to the parts when you say you don't feel pretty and you feel overweight. Sometimes I have that feeling so strong, so that I don't even wanna go outside. May sound kinda stupid, but I'm really not confident with my body, I make myself think I'm like the fattest person on earth. I even used to throw upp as soon as I ate something. And still I have the urge to do so sometimes.. However, I know that it wouldn't help you if I told you that you're NOT ugly and overweight. I know that it doesn't help to hear it from others, you have to realize it yourself. But though, I want you to know that there's no reason for you to be unconfident with who you are :)

You're so awesome, for shizzle :D
Take care my deary <3

craziey gal...honey, i do understand why u gave up on 'friendship'.a pieces of ur past still haunting u.but for me, after my family, friends are da best grace from god. i told u before that my friends always laughing at me but i can't live without them! human are not perfect...sometimes they do a poison,and sometimes they do an antidote too! please dont give up on friendship...there are many people outhere that can give u a lot of love, an excitement of friendship! and one thing honey, please dont notify that u are not pretty! u do a pretty and special woman! believe me, only someone else can value our uniqueness...LOVE LIFE AND LIFE WILL LOVE YOU BACK. LOVE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU BACK.then, here come your strength...

Keep love in your heart. a life without love is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. the consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring!

~u possess a beautiful eyes..luv it n luv ya!

amazing blog baby.

first.. this last days í´m weak, and i feel like u ,that, in this place i have found real friends, i´ve connected with some people that is now very close to me. and i don´t know what would i do without them.

and.. i think that i true that, sometimes if u loose ur strenght and don´t try to catch it again , it will be harder later.. so i think that writing like u do, can help u and helps us, the weakness of some peopple can make us stronger but their strenght really make us stronger and being proud.. and that´s the biggest strenght.

wish u can understand what i mean. haha . u know i do it as better as i can.

all my respect .. U ARE STRONG!! don´t doubt or forget it.

love u!! all my respect!!