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Blank blogs
Written by xtina on September 1, 2011
Well, after two blank blogs with only titles, I think it's time to get a few things out.
It feels weird to write blogs since I haven't written anything for a lont time and whenever I want to write one, I don't feel like sharing it at that particular moment. But I guess, now I'm more inspired in some ways to share what I had in mind. And it's like, when I stopped writing blogs, I couldn't write English anymore lol since I'm doing French most of the time, and speak French every day.
Anyway, coming to my first blank blog: Her lies became your truth.
To cut a long story short, I witnessed some "friends" not believing my words. For some reasons, they'd listen to some other people, who were/are (probably/for sure) against me. And I really wish they could see the truth. We are blinded very easily, either by love, or hatred, or jealousy, or fear. I just don't understand why people would tell lies about some other people, without actually knowing them. I mean, we've always said "Don't judge a book by its cover", yet, we still do it. By "we", i mean "many of the human population". So, my point is that because we're humans with very sensitive minds, we unconsciously let some negative thoughts invade us and we let them create fake images. It's going to take a loooong time to train the mind so that it can block everything that shouldn't be in there. But it is possible! I mean, if we are conscious at some point that we did a mistake, then obviously, we'll have to change it. We can't simply move on, and make as if everything is over. Sometimes, we also have to learn to apologize to people we've hurt. Even if it takes a long time, I'd rather have someone apologize to me now, than if they never did. Ok, my thoughts were all over the place. But, at least I got them out.
Next is: Suicical episodes.
This one is very personal, so I might not write it here. Maybe on facebook...
But anyway, people with suicidal episodes might wanna read this:
http://www.comh.ca/publications/resources/pub_cwst/CWST.pdf
I thought it was quite interesting...
It does get better. Don't lose HOPE.
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Rach89 said on September 6, 2011:
It frustrates my life when people who you thought are friends, will suddenly believe some made up rumour they hear from random people. Then either question you on it, or just start to ignore you. (The latter being much worse, because you don't know what you've done wrong!)
I hope everything is okay with regards to your next blank blog. I've been there but with the right help, everything eventually gets better :)
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I missed reading your blogs. You are right, sooooo many people are too quick to listen to what other people say about others and use that as a basis to form their opinions. How can we do that? Yet every single one of us has done it at some point, I guess just as we get older and (maybe) wiser we are open minded enough to give people and things a chance. OK, maybe they will let us down as we had been warned but isn't it better to have learnt through your own lessons than other people's?
People can say unkind things and I do believe much of the time it is down to jealousy, lack of understanding (or willingness to understand) or even some misplaced judgement that someone has done wrong by them regardless of whether they have or not, or knew if they had or not. Yes it is hard to let the unkind words of others roll off our backs and it's not always possible. But it is possible to surround ourselves by people who are willing to accept us for who we are and make up their own minds and they are the ones worth listening to. If someone won't even make the effort to make up their own mind about something, is their opinion really valid?
I hope whatever is going on at the moment smooths itself out but you know we are always here if and when you need a chat. Keep smiling :D